RDJ`s Blogs

JAVA is such a complex thing.....

i love when '0' become '1' or even more.....:D

a big salute for FW and DO... a big big big big salute from the deepest part of my heart =]

"jangan pernah ikut menyalahkan kesalahan sesamamu"...

Kalimat di atas (gw dapet dari Mr. T), sebuah kalimat dengan kata-kata yang banget2 singkat, tp tanpa gw sadari, kata2 itu bener2 memiliki arti yg dalem... bener2 sebuah kalimat yang sederhana, tapi dibalik kesederhanaannya, kalimat itu mengandung banyak arti.

Mungkin kita sering menghakimi kesalahan teman2 kita, sering kita bilang
“ini salah lo"
“lo seh”
“gara2 lo tuh”
“iya, lo seh...”
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Kata2 seperti itu sering banget kita keluarin dari mulut kita, mungkin dalam seminggu, kita bisa keluarin kata2 itu lebih dari 7x, tapi pernah kah kita berpikir outside the box... think from the other side, mungkin mulai sekarang kita harus lebih instropeksi diri en mulai berpikir hal2 berikut:
mungkin aja dari kesalahan orang itu, kita juga ikut ambil andil dalam kesalahannya, mungkin orang itu emank melakukan the biggest part dalam kesalahan itu, tp jangan lupa 100% ga bakal jadi 100% sempurna tanpa 1%.... inget.. mungkin kita hanya melakukan 1% kesalahan, tapi apkah kita menjadi benar karena 99% lainnya bukan kita yg melakukan ?
Mungkin aja, dia melakukan kesalahan kita, karena peran serta kita juga... Karena perbuatan kita dia jadi ikut menjadi “pesakitan”.. pernah ga she kita pikir, “wah.. kl gw ga melakukan ini, dia ga jadi sang terdakwa hari ini” coba lah kita pikirkan hal2 itu..... kita emank ga bersalah secara langsung, tapi kita yang menyebabkan orang lain bersalah secara langsung.... so, apakah kita menjadi benar karena itu ?
Mungkin aja, pas dia melakukan kesalahan itu, kita taw, tapi kita pun ikut “mrnikmati” kesalahan dia.. en kita ga mengingatkan kl dia salah, malah kita ikut-ikutan “enjoying someone`s mistake” sambil berpikir “ikut aja.. gw taw kok dia salah, tapi kan org2 taunya dia yg salah, bukan gw, so gw ada di dalam 'safe zone'”
Mungkin kita ga bersalah sama sekali.. tapi inget.. hari ini giliran dia yg bersalah, ga menutup kemungkinan 1 detik kemudian giliran kita yang melakukan kesalahan... inget ga pernah ada manusia yang sempurna, ga pernah ada orang yang dapat melakukan segala sesuatu secara perfect, the question is “kl kita yang dalam posisi bersalah, apakah enak kl kita dituding bersalah terus menerus ?”

Kasus2 diatas cuma segelintir yg bisa gw tulis di blog ini, tentu masih banyak kasus2 laen yg sejenis, namun beda situasi...So.. gimana sikap kita kl temen kita ada yg melakukan kesalahan ?? diam sajakah ? Pura2 ga taw ? Atoooo gimana ??

the answer is depend on u and your situation, tapi buat gw.. lebih baik kita mencarikan sebuah solusi baginya, jangan ikut menambahkan bebannya.. kesalahannya tak akan pernah berkurang karena hujatan-hujatan kita, malah itu dapat memperburuk suasana dan situasi yang ada.... Apa yg kau tabur hari ini, itulah yg akan kau tuai di kemudian hari.. kita ga pernah taw kapan kita akan melakukan kesalahan (ya iya lahhhhh....).. mungkin hari ini kawan kita melakukan kesalahan, tapi bisa aja besok kita melakukan kesalahan 10000x lebih fatal dari dia, dan mungkin dia yg bersalah kemarin dapat menjadi jawaban atas masalah kita hari ini... So.. jangan lupa diri, jangan jumawa, sepinter2nya kita, setinggi2nya ilmu kita, sehebat2nya daya pikir kita.... tetep ... kita cuma manusia, selalu melakukan kesalahan dalam hidup...

itu sedikit sharing dari gw... sebuah ilmu kehidupan, pengalaman, dan petuah yg gw dapet dari Mr. T (identitas dirahasiakan.. hohoho)..

Thnx Mr. T u are a great teacher.... U give us (not only me) a lesson that have more meaning than a gold...

Don`t ask us why we never left our school from we started to school
We never know and don`t want to know how is the situation at another school
You`ll never know the reason, it came from our heart, we never plant this, but it grow by itself, we don`t know what it called with, the only thing that we know is we love our school, the moments, the peoples, all of the unforgetable memories that we have, and we couldn`t buy these with every money in this world,

The old building, the small field, the broken AC, the uncomfortable chair, the full-of-signature-wall, the almost-black-white-board, and etc but all of these facts won`t change one fact, we are the alumni of SKK I, and we proud enough to be that :D

i have my own world now,

i have so so so so many friends, the best that i can found, maybe sometimes they made me so angry but in the other time, they can make me laugh, cheer me up when i`m sad, make me so happy, thnx God i have them, they are so precious for me =d

not only that, involving in many RGK`s activities, made my life more meaningful than before. i`m glad i have them, they told me about the meaning of life, the only thing i regret from RGK is i wish i could be involved in it sooner, but better to be late than never... =d

The last, i have my dream job, i have it even before i`m graduated, when the others have to find the job, applying so many CV, i think i`m lucky, i don`t need to do that... :d

girlfriend ???? maybe that is the only minor part from my life, but... who can have anything in this world ??? and for now, i think i still want to be alone, want to focus on my career, and want to enjoy my loneliness... i`m not saying that i don`t want to have a girlfriend, someday in the future, i want to get married of course, but for now, nobody can fulfill my heart more than 50%, nor does she.... let it flow, if God have sent my rib, so i will found her someday...

i left my team when they are growing up
sometimes, i miss the moment when i still with them

love is so blind, even a fang could be pretty if you love the owner :">

hurt when you have to face the fact that you dont want to face

this is her way.. it`s a fact... i always loves the graduation party, but i hates the separation that came after it, i hate hate hate when i must say goodbye to my friend T__T

Times runs so fast but it left so many memories behind, thnx 4 being not only my good friend, but the best that i have. Hope u`ll find all the best 4 u.. i will miss u... we will.. absolutely.. T_T